Friday, December 31, 2010

Monday, December 27, 2010

Thursday, December 23, 2010

Tuesday, December 21, 2010

???



What made me so confused??
started to regret for not investing on DRB.

Monday, December 20, 2010

Happy graduation to you



Mr Kenneth and Ms Megan =)

Sunday, December 19, 2010

treasure


treasuring what we have currently.

Saturday, December 18, 2010

Friday, December 17, 2010

be graceful



putting my trust in Jesus alone.

He'll make a way when it seems to be no way.

Learning to wait on God is one of the most valuable lessons you can learn.

Have faith;

everything is beautiful in His way!

Thursday, December 16, 2010

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Happy birthday



Happy birthday to 3 queen of the day =)

Monday, December 13, 2010

It's a good life





Woke up in London yesterday
Found myself in the city near Piccadilly
Don't really know how I got here
I got some pictures on my phone

New names and numbers that I don't know
Address to places like Abbey Road
Day turns to night, night turns to whatever we want
We're young enough to say

Oh this has gotta be the good life
This has gotta be the good life
This could really be a good life, good life

Say oh, got this feeling that you can't fight
Like this city is on fire tonight
This could really be a good life
A good, good life

To my friends in New York, I say hello
My friends in L.A. they don't know
Where I've been for the past few years or so
Paris to China to Col-or-ado

Sometimes there's airplanes I can' t jump out
Sometimes there's bullshit that don't work now
We are god of stories but please tell me-e-e-e
What there is to complain about
When you're happy like a fool
Let it take you over

When everything is out
You gotta take it in
Oh this has gotta be the good life
This has gotta be the good life
This could really be a good life, good life

Say oh, got this feeling that you can't fight
Like this city is on fire tonight
This could really be a good life
A good, good life


Hopelessly
I feel like there might be something that I'll miss
Hopelessly
I feel like the window closes oh so quick
Hopelessly
I'm taking a mental picture of you now
'Cuz hopelessly
The hope is we have so much to feel good about

Oh this has gotta be the good life
This has gotta be the good life
This could really be a good life, good life

Say oh, got this feeling that you can't fight
Like this city is on fire tonight
This could really be a good life
A good, good life


To my friends in New York, I say hello
My friends in L.A. they don't know
Where I've been for the past few years or so
Paris to China to Col-or-ado

Sometimes there's airplanes I can' t jump out
Sometimes there's bullshit that don't work now
We are god of stories but please tell me-e-e-e
What there is to complain about




Sunday, December 12, 2010

Friday, December 10, 2010

say grace

随缘



禅语: 万事皆有缘,人生当随缘。随不是跟随,是顺其自然 , 不怨忧, 不躁进, 不强求。 随不是随便 ,是把握机缘,不悲观,不刻板,不慌乱。人生随缘,即是“枯萎的随它枯萎,繁荣的任它去繁荣”。随顺自然,毫不执着。

随缘,两字常见,却从未去深究,理解也停留在表义,这些天看一些关于人生禅悟的书,才发现其实自己一直崇尚的顺其自然的人生处世态度即是禅语的“随缘”二字;但真正要做到禅语的“随缘”,却需要在人生的路途中更深刻去领会,去禅悟,才能真正生活得更豁达,洒脱。

凡事顺其自然,是自己常说的话,但真正遇事时,却又未必能真正做到。明明知道,世间许多事情比如事业亦好,情感也罢,皆应顺其自然,不可强求,但铆足干劲、紧盯预目标追求成功时,不自觉地就会被人“欲”所左右,“欲”多数时候是占上峰且无限的,当在自己的努力下有所收获时,“欲”便会丛涌追求更大、更全、更高的目标,甚至超越自己的实际能力,将自己引入“欲”的恶性循环里,即“欲”一旦得到满足,又会有更多“欲求”,人不知不觉便会被自己太多的“欲求”困扰,生活得不堪负重,一边忽略了人生中许多垂手可得的快乐和幸福,却又一边感叹生活的无趣,人生的压力。当然,人生不可能无求无欲,事业目标的追求更如此,只是以随缘的心态去面对,淡看人生的“欲”,便会在努力追求事业目标的同时,用心去体验酸甜苦辣的过程,顺其自然中懂得把握时机,不消极,不躁进,不慌乱,不过于注重结果,有“果”是缘,无“果”也是缘,有时真的如愿修成了“正果”,回过头来,值得回味的却是过程,所以只要努力过、奋斗过,争取过,有无“果”也就随缘了。在顺其自然的情况下,已经“无果”了,却在“欲”的驱使下,不甘心“无果”,盲目执着,沦为“欲”的奴隶,执着于不是自己能力所能达到的,甚至超越自己能力才能达到目标,整日处于“患得患失”的心态,便注定生活在不安、烦燥的状态,注定无法去体验种种追求目标路程中带来的快乐!学会自嘲一些吧,事业有成,目标得以实现,是顺其自然,水到渠成;努力了事业无成,目标无法实现,也是顺其自然,说明自己方方面面尚不足,懂得为自己解脱,正视现实,跳出“欲”的陷井,我们便会在冬日的萧条中看到春日的万物复苏,夏季的生机盎然,秋季的硕果累累;世间是轮回的,有所得必有所失,有所失又会有所得,万事随缘,保持一颗平常心,淡看繁华与落寞,颠峰与低谷;人生路上的坎坎与坷坷,幸福与快乐,皆是人世走一遭得到的馈赠,不可拒绝,就坦然面对。

凡事皆随缘,人生除了工作事业外,情感更应随缘。是你的,终归是你,不是你的,即使强求得到的也未必幸福。禅语说得好“枯萎的随它枯萎,繁荣的随它繁荣”,万事随缘,当不可预知的缘份将一份情感摆在面前时,能做的也许就是“随缘”,顺其自然,值得珍惜和拥有的,就该把握机缘,积极争取,哪怕历尽磨难,艰辛万苦,即使最终无缘拥有、伤痛满身,那也是人生情感经历的路程。有幸得到这份情感的,更要顺其自然,懂得珍惜,懂得用心去经营,懂得享受随之带来的幸福快乐。但是世间万物不是一成不变的,任何事物都是在变化中发展,在发展中前进,情感亦如此,天长地久,海枯石烂终不悔,永远的永远等等这些男女间美妙爱情滋生的情话,亦是顺乎于情,情至深处时的至高至美至纯的美好愿望,是每一个心怀着爱的人所祈求的结果,但在追求天长地久或永远的情感结果过程中,情感会遭受各种各样因素的影响,不可能一成不变,或许生活会让情感变得更加情意笃深,直至牵手白头;或许生活又会颠覆当初视若无价的情感,何谓真爱让人迷惑。无论哪一种结果,其实都该随缘,两情相悦,情深意浓时,尽情地渲染,尽情地享受,尽情地相爱吧!让所有的人都善意地嫉妒;情已逝,爱已走时,亦请尽情地发泄,尽情地流泪,尽情地痛哭吧!被人同情与嘲笑又如何?自嘲地为自己开脱:自己失去的是不爱自己和不珍惜自己的人,而那个人失去的是一个最爱和最珍惜他(她)的人,相比之下自己的损失更小些。随缘吧!失去也许是为了让自己遇到更好的缘!顺其自然,懂得珍惜与拥有,更要懂得舍得与放弃。情感中的“情”和“爱”是博大的,除了男女间的情爱,还有亲情、儿女情、手足情、朋友情、同事情等等,许多时候要懂得跳出情感的“小我”,寻到“大我”,不将情感局限于“小我”世界,一颗心不仅能饱受幸福快乐,更能承受得起磨砺,安然地看云卷云舒,看山花烂漫,看天苍苍野茫茫,看天地的礴大,感知人的渺小;人的一生何必在意太多的得得失失,真实地过好每一天,开心每一天,展望美好的每一天吧!

随缘,一直崇尚的一种做人的态度,用心去感悟,才领会“随缘”更是一种待人处事的思维方式,生活是在随缘中实现,心智也在随缘中成长,岁月本无疆,人生当随缘!

No.Eleven

Thursday, December 9, 2010

Monday, December 6, 2010

Sunday, December 5, 2010

thx God

wy, for the sweet dream